When I think of Gonz's role in my life, not only do I think of him as a dear friend who always showed interest in my life and encouraged me on but his impact went deeper than that. As I reflect, I realize that Gonz's journey and struggles has helped me in overcoming certain barriers of my own over time. And for that I will forever be grateful. Gonz was so comfortable with himself and he deeply cared and that made it easy for me to be at ease around him. This last year I met Gonz less often and mostly just in passing by but whenever my husband returned from time spent with Gonz, he would say 'Gonz really cares for you'. We planned to meet the day before he left for India but it never happened.
I loved to see Gonz rejoice in the blessings of others. It was a precious gift he kept giving people. His passion was (and will remain) contagious, he was not afraid to speak his mind. That inspired me a lot. He liked to be a voice for those who didnt have one and he was really passionate about giving people dignity.
There are so many things that I like about Gonz and that make me smile but one I have to mention :)
Gonz did not care about appearances. I was really concerned when he did not show up for our wedding reception. And then when Gonz finally did come he was wearing a bright orange tshirt, shorts, and sandals! He was coming straight from the airport. His flight had been delayed and instead of changing before he came, he chose not to waste more time and to be with us. He knew we really wanted him there.
I miss him and I will specifically miss him at the milestones in my life. As a friend told me, I can honor Gonz not just by reflecting on how he has impacted me but by letting him influnence me even as I go forward from here. Thankyou Gonz. Though it is unfortunate that it is in your passing away that I'm coming to know more fully about you, it also inspires me to love more fully... yasi.
Yasmin Philipos,
Mountain View, CA.
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